Intervention is usually undertaken because the family is tired of watching a loved one destroy her or him self. The drug or alcohol addicted person is often the last one to know her or his condition. Denial can be thought of as an acronym for Don’t Even Notice I Am Lying.

Addicts actually believe their own lies — that’s the delusional nature of drug and alcohol addiction. There are the same negative consequences in all areas of their lives.

Most often the families bring in the interventionist as a last resort. They’ve tried everything else from giving the addicted person money, to imposing restrictions, to hiring him or her in the family business, to letting him or her live in the basement, etc. These are enabling behaviors and do nothing to help the addict.

The actual intervention is the result of extensive planning. The first step is to find when a bed will be available at a drug addiction treatment center. Those who will be involved in the intervention are sent details of the process to make sure they are all “on the same page.” A two-hour pre-planning meeting is set up with all participants (except the addict) in attendance. This involves education about addiction and an explanation of what happens in treatment.

The pre-planning meeting is often a very cathartic and therapeutic experience for family members. Addicts tend to compartmentalize their lives. They will always take one person, whom they identify as a “softie,” and get them to enable their habit. For example, “I haven’t eaten in three days. Please give me some money. Don’t tell Dad.” (The money is spent on drugs or alcohol — not food.) People are amazed to learn that others in the group have heard the same stories and lies.

At the pre-planning meeting the family members agree to write letters expressing their love and concern for the addict. Each letter ends with: “I want you to seek help today” and may also outline consequences if the person does not go to treatment (e.g., “or you will not be allowed to keep working in the family business”).

The interventionist vets the letters and meets with the group just prior to the intervention to plan logistics. The intervention will come as a surprise to the addict. For those participating, the intervention is emotionally draining. The interventionist is not emotionally involved and, therefore, cannot be manipulated by the addict.

At the intervention each participant reads his or her letter. This is a very emotional process. People often see family members cry for the first time ever. The people involved in the intervention are those whom the addict respects and will listen to. Those with whom the addict has a bad history are not invited.

The addict is being asked only to consider how his or her behavior has affected others. She or he is not given an opportunity to respond. The family has prepared a suitcase and she or he is off to treatment. The addict will resist but the interventionist will be firm.

Because the interventionist is not emotionally involved he will not back down. It’s crunch time — the addict goes to treatment or suffers the full consequences of his or her behavior. In most cases the addict will have a moment of clarity and will go to treatment.

It’s a great moment when an addict accepts help. Intervention works because the family then recognizes the problem. They can now start to work on overcoming the trauma in the family caused by the addict and his or her behavior.

Copyright Daryl Samson

Daryl Samson
Program Director, Orchard Drug and Alcohol Addiction Center

Daryl Samson specializes in the assessment, treatment, intervention and monitoring of addictive disorders and chemical dependencies at the Orchard Drug and Alcohol Addiction Treatment Center http://www.orchardrecovery.com/ in British Columbia, Canada. He possesses a unique combination of educational, professional, and personal experiences that enable him to relate easily to those suffering from drug and alcohol addiction. Daryl has 15 years of experience in addictions treatment and intervention http://www.orchardrecovery.com/preadmission.php. He credits Dr. Ray Baker of HealthQuest as a mentor who influenced his approach to interacting with addicts and their loved ones. Daryl is a model of balanced recovery and is passionate about instilling hope in the hopeless and helping them meet their recovery goals.

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It is true than in order to quit or moderate drinking you need to decide. You need to make a decision and take some action. However, thinking that you can pick some day in the future and say – that is the day I am quitting – will not work. The day you absolutely have to stop or change your pattern of drinking is the day that you have a “moment of clarity”. A moment of clarity is a very small window of time in which the real you surfaces, the insanity of the addiction is held at bay, and there is a clear message in your brain that you must do something about your drinking or your addiction. That is the exact moment that you stop everything else you are doing and run for help. That is the moment that you throw everything you can at the addictive behavior – every resource that you know about.

If you choose to miss this window of opportunity you are taking a huge risk. You do not know when, if ever, you will have another such moment. When the moment of clarity ends, and you have taken no action, the addiction will swallow you up once more. The addiction never wants you to stop.

If you are reading this, you may be having a moment of clarity right now.

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Deborah C Morrow is a personal coach for people who want to moderate or stop their alcohol addiction.

One of the byproducts of addiction is the fact that an addict completely isolates themselves from the rest of society. There are reasons behind this. Drugs and alcohol will cause a person to lie, steal, cheat and manipulate – all of these actions result in harming society in one way or another. At one point a person makes the decision to go against the morals and values of society. When they do this they are separating themselves from the rest of the world. After a person completes a drug and alcohol rehab, they are thrown back into society. They are thrown back into the group that they harmed and resisted for so long. This provides for a bumpy transition at best.

In order to handle the inevitable cohabitation between a person who was once an addict and the rest of society the former drug user has to know what is expected of them. They literally have to be told not to steal, not to lie, not to manipulate and so on. And while this may be a very simple concept for most people to understand, remember this was a person who, until very recently, was basically trying to kill themselves.

The sign of an effective drug rehab is that they are able to fully handle the addiction and get the person up to the point where they are willing and seeking out the companionship of other, sober, individuals.

A young man was brought into the emergency room with a blood alcohol level of .423, and according to his boyfriend he had been drinking vodka for two days and had not eaten. He didn’t want treatment and was abusive to the medical team. He was a quite nice guy, didn’t look like the type of person who could explode at any moment and launch into an expletive-laden tirade. But the staff soon found out that he was completely out of control, cursing the nurses and when the doctor entered the room for the first time, he spit on him. The police were called.

The ED staff did their best to stabilize the situation and a plan was initiated to get his into detox and then transferred to a local alcoholism treatment facility. His wife was appreciative and tried her best to cooperate with the staff and encourage her husband to comply with the treatment, but it was not to be. His disease had progressed to the point where nothing mattered to his but the alcohol. As he put it when asked if he wanted to quit drinking, “No, I love this stuff. It’s the only thing that’s legal.” His alcoholism had taken over total control of his life. Perhaps there was some remnant of his old self still intact, but he was hard to love.

Medical people are trained to be professionals, and most medical people are compassionate, caring individuals who genuinely want to heal, which is why they got into the medical profession to begin with. The patient had been transferred to one of the other units in the hospital and soon became a case study in the “patient from hell” category.

This particular patient was so disgusting that the nurses were trying hard just to get through a shift. he was verbally abusive, manipulative and divisive. One staffer would go into the room and see the man begging for pain relief. His act was very convincing and people would get taken in, because their compassion overruled their logic. The next would get a nasty, vulgar animal, who pulled out IV lines, threw things of his tray and screamed at the top of his lungs, disturbing every patient on the unit. Nurses shared that they needed support from each other just to deal with the man for a few minutes. One nurse said that the patient would use the “F” word as a verb, noun and adverb in the same sentence.

After a few days, the patient decided to discharge himself to attend a party. Two days later he showed up in the ED again, needing detox with a blood alcohol level practically off the charts.

The whole routine started again.

They stabilized him and moved him to another unit. The nurses were trying to care for him, and that care included taking preventative measures to keep his safe. One nurse talked about how he “catapulted” himself out of bed and was quickly found on the floor, on all fours, trying to get his balance.

He was screaming for pain medication and wanted to the doctor to “put him out” so he could sleep until morning. When the doctor tried to explain to his that he wasn’t going to acquiesce, he went off. It must have been tempting to improperly medicate his just to shut his up, but the doctor followed the protocol and accepted medical practice.

Hospital staffs take falls very seriously. Sometimes extreme measures are implemented to prevent falls, such as arm and leg restraints, but in his case there was a “sitter” in the room with him, watching the whole time and even he could not prevent his action.

Fortunately, the patient was not injured, but the unit’s long record of fall prevention ended. The nurse was understandably upset and blamed herself, but the fact is the patient, in his diseased state, did it to himself. The sitter tried to prevent it, but he wasn’t quick enough to prevent the incident. It happened that quickly.

The staff worked with the patient’s wife again and plans were again made to transfer his to the treatment facility, but he refused. In his case, because of the alcoholism, he was not really capable of making a rational, intelligent decision.

The addiction needs feeding and the addicted mind cannot comprehend being freed. He had gone a long way down the path and had become completely self-absorbed, irrational, manipulative and the disease had progressed to the point where the alcohol had caused serious damage to his liver and other organs. Still, alcohol was all he wanted, regardless of the consequences.

Sadly, he had insurance that would cover his alcoholism treatment, but he would not allow it. So many others go untreated because they have no means of payment, but despite his benefit, he went without treatment because of the poor choices he made continually. The staff will not be surprised to see his again, and once again they will do their best to help his and try to do everything that is in his best interest. But the patient gets the last say and it isn’t likely to happen. The most likely thing to happen will be his literally drinking himself to death.

Ned Wicker is the Addictions and Alcoholism Recovery Chaplain, and he author’s a website for addiction support:

Alcoholism-Support.org
or

Alcoholism Symptoms

People tend to pay most attention to the thoughts and feelings of their drugged peer group. As a young (new) drug abuser works to fit into his or her new group, they are learning how to behave all over again. There are conflicts with the new beliefs and codes of conduct of the new group and the ways of the existing group, i.e. the family. What is expected of them in the new group might be in complete opposition to the expectations of the existing group.

Some new drug users solve this dilemma by donning two personalities, one for the family and one for the druggie group. Keeping these two avatars separate can be a real juggling act, especially when it involves significant changes in appearance.

The new group actually has a completely different moral code which must be followed in order to maintain group status. Where theft might cause the person to become ostracized by the members of the former group, in the new group of drug abusers it might elevate one’s position and gain the respect of fellows. This can be seen in gangs, where initiations often involve performing some act of violence.

So when you try to get this person to see reason and leave the drugs behind, you are also asking him to give up his new group, to break the moral code he has been following and, in a way, betray his friends.

I wish there was a simple way out of this corner. If there was, drug abuse and addiction would not claim as many lives as it does. But understanding this phenomenon can give you an edge up in dealing with someone moving into a drug abusing lifestyle.

Point out to the person that there is a moral code in the family too. Show them that there is also a code of conduct in the community, and that living up to those codes is by far the more pro-survival course to take.

This could be a tough sell, as you are working at odds with the druggie friends and the social pressures that depict drug abuse as fun and enlightened.

Next in this series:

Five Reasons Why a Drug Addict Won’t Listen to Reason

Pro-Drug Propaganda

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The 12 step model works for some, but many addicts are left still struggling with their addictions after completing the 12 steps. One reason may be that the acknowledgment of a higher power, one of the 12 steps, does not go over well with atheists. Once you start pretending on one step, why not pretend through the rest as well?

Non 12 step alcohol rehab and non 12 step drug rehab also do not consider all addictions a disease that the addict “caught”. Non 12 step programs stress personal responsibility and recovery, not lifelong counseling and constantly being a recovering addict.

Not everyone wants to be considered a recovering addict for the rest of their lives. Some people find that an addiction was brought on suddenly, perhaps by a major, life changing event. They need to know that they can be cured, and not live with the sigma of being an addict for the rest of their lives. For these people, a non 12 step program may be the answer.

Other choices for addicts include biophysical. This involves cleansing the body of build up toxins from drugs or alcohol. Once the toxins are removed from the body, biophysical program claim that the cravings for drugs or alcohol are reduced. When toxins are left in the body, residual traces may find their way into the bloodstream, causing intense cravings and relapses.

Whichever program an addict decides upon, it should be an informed choice. Non 12 step alcohol rehab and non 12 step drug rehab and biophysical drug rehab are simply less well-known treatment options that deserve consideration. When traditional methods continuously fail, perhaps the addict is not to blame. Another treatment program may work instead. All individuals are different, and their addictions require different types of treatments.

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What do chocolate and alcohol have in common? In a word – calories.

The number of calories in alcohol is incredibly high with a bottle of wine exceeding 500, a medium glass (175ml) coming in at 125 and even the dieters favourite, the G&T, is a whopping 120kcals. And if you think cocktails are good for you with all that fruit, think again.

While this doesn’t sound too bad in terms of your recommended daily calorie intake, when you consider you’re consuming these empty calories in addition to food, which may be a carb filled dinner to line your stomach or a meal out, it suddenly starts to add up.

It is also believed that the toxins contained in alcohol can contribute to the appearance of cellulite, so if you’re drinking too much you can look forward to a flabby tum and orange peel bum.

And unfortunately it’s not just the calories in alcohol you need to worry about.

In the short term…

When it comes to your appearance and the short term side effects of alcohol there is a whole list of things to consider including bloating, bloodshot eyes, spots, smelly breath, red skin while drinking and dull looking, grey skin the next day due to dehydration.

Nina Goad of the British Association of Dermatologists explains:

“Alcohol dehydrates your body generally, including the skin, which is your body’s largest organ. This happens every time you drink. Alcohol is also thought to deprive the skin of certain vital vitamins and nutrients”.

Sadly yet another thing alcohol affects is your sleep, so even if you go to bed early you can expect to wake up feeling exhausted with tired, puffy eyes. And when you do you’ll probably smell, as although your liver metabolises most of the alcohol you drink, five to 10 percent is excreted through your breath, sweat and urine.

In the long term…

The long term effects of regularly exceeding the daily guidelines are also something to think about. If you’ve ever seen someone who drinks too much you might have noticed they’re a bit red in the face. This is down to Rosacea, a skin condition linked to alcohol, which can begin with a tendency to blush and flush easily and can eventually lead to permanent facial disfigurement.

“One of the effects of alcohol is to dilate the small blood vessels in the skin, which can make the skin appear redder,” says Goad. “The central areas of the face can become studded with small red bumps and pus spots, which come and go in crops. Small dilated blood vessels also appear, looking like thin red streaks.”

All in all it doesn’t paint a very pretty picture, so if you want to keep your good looks and minimise the side effects of alcohol why not cut down on the amount you drink for 2010? With all the money and calories you’ll save you can even treat yourself to a nice meal to celebrate.

Visit Drinkaware for all the facts about alcohol or use Drinkaware’s free unit calculator to uncover the hidden calories in alcohol.

The interesting part of the mentality of heroin addicts is their feeling of superiority as compared to other addicts. In their discussions one gets the impression that their addiction is usually found only in mentally advanced addicts as compared to say cocaine. The real significance in the addict’s exaggerated appraisal of himself which to a normal person sounds bizarre is that the drug itself is superimposing it’s continued existence in the host body by controlling and influencing the heroin addict’s thought processes. Heroin becomes almost like a living entity that controls the mind of the host body to continue its life.

As absurd as that might sound, the fact is that using the addict’s altered state of conscience is another option. Talk therapy done while detox is going on also helps to keep the addict of the drug without the reliance of a chemically produced substitute used as to keep the addict from relapse. Weaning an addict off heroin doesn’t really work as reduced hits do not keep the addict controlled and his behavior could be dangerous. Basically, heroin detox options are limited to keeping the addict in a controlled environment until the need for heroin no longer causes disturbed behavior in the addict.

For the best results of heroin detox it is recommend that the addict go to some type of long term drug rehabilitation center. These programs are generally require a 6 month to 2 year commitment. The person will be required to live at the rehab during this time. Most places require the addict to work to pay for there their rent. This is great because most addicts do not have very strong work ethics. They also will be required to attend 12 step meetings daily and group therapy.

Good luck

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1. Lack of sleep.

This is one of the first things you’ll notice if you decide to quit marijuana. You may experience pretty severe insomnia within the first few days of quitting. If you were a person who smoked before bed, you may find the first weeks pretty tough.

2. Not much of an appetite.

The anxiety, lack of sleep, and change to your daily schedule can cause you to lose your appetite. But you need to eat! Make sure that when you do eat, you aren’t binging on junk food, and that you are getting lots of fruits and vegetables. If you don’t feel like eating a full meal, snack of some nuts or sunflower seeds.

3. You’ll get angry.

That’s another thing that’s really common. I am sure you’ve been around someone who decided to quit smoking regular cigarettes, right? Do you remember how easily worked up they were? Tell the people you are around to expect it so that they go easy on you!

4. You may feel pretty depressed.

You’ll want to smoke. In fact, you’ll want to smoke so bad that the thought you can’t will make you really miserable. That will pass when the weed withdrawal is over, but it will last until you’re clean. Remember to let your friends know you’re quitting so that they are prepared. Some people smoke to mask their underlying depression, so if you quit, you are going to feel that in full force!

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